You Don’t Have To Be With Me If You Have No Intentions Of Staying. I mean it.
I don’t know about the girls you’re used to, and I’m not going to convince you that I’m a unique, delicate flower, but the truth is, I’m looking for some things that probably aren’t ordinary in today’s world.
You see, I’m not the kind of one-night stand.
I’m not a girl looking for meaningless adventures or simple matters.
I am not a girl who’s perfectly fine with you picking her up at a bar so that she won’t call her again the following day.
Don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against those who engage in these things, nor do I consider myself above them in any way, but it’s not my way of acting.
No, this is not all part of my strategy to make you fall even more in love with me.
It’s not like I’m going to be harsh or pretending to be different just to stand out from the crowd.
The point is, I honestly get in the way quickly, and the last thing I need is for a guy who’s passing through my life to leave me heartbroken.
I don’t give a good look at modern quotes; you can call me old-fashioned, but I’m not looking for something temporary, and I’m not ashamed to admit it.
I’m just not going to waste my time building a relationship that’s doomed to failure.
So if you come into my life with an already planned exit strategy, don’t do it!
If you plan to make me fall in love with you just so you can leave me hanging, please don’t.
If you plan to invest only halfway and not give yourself up entirely to our entire relationship, don’t try around me in the first place.
Call me a hopeless romantic, but the truth is, I believe in love.
In the natural and unconditional love that lasts a lifetime.
And I’m not interested in anything less than that.
I won’t settle for a boy who doesn’t know what he wants or an immature boy who can’t decide for me.
For a selfish who is incapable of loving and who will end up killing me spiritually.
I’m not saying our relationship necessarily has to last until death do us part, but I don’t want to start anything knowing it has a default expiration date.
So please don’t come into my life if you don’t come here to stay.
Don’t come near me if you don’t believe in love.
If you’re not looking for your person forever and if you’re not on the quest for a happy forever.
Don’t chase me if you’re not looking for a meaningful connection if you’re not looking for something real or something that lasts.
Don’t go out with me if you can’t commit if you can’t be loyal and devoted.
Don’t do it if you plan on chaining me up and playing mind games with me.
If you need someone just to help you spend the day or if you need a backup plan until your ex or someone else is here for you.
Don’t go into my life if you’re going to destroy my heart and leave me broken.
Suppose you’re going to leave deep scars and unarmed wounds on my soul. If I need years to recover from the damage you do and if you’ll change me forever.
Don’t do it if you’re going to make me a bitter, negative person because I’m anything but that.
Don’t do it if you’re going to kill my faith in love and trust in people.
Don’t go into my life if you expect me to chase you or pray for your love and attention.
If you’re going to leave me hanging and if you’re not going to be there when times get tough.
I don’t know, maybe I’m asking too much, and I may never find the man I’m looking for.
However, I always prefer to be single than to be in a relationship without love or with a man who can’t give me what I want, need, and deserve.
Hey, at least I’m honest from the beginning. Please have enough decency to do the same.
So, if you think I’m too much to handle or if you think I’m not worthy of all the problems, stay away in time.
Be brave enough to save us both unnecessary problems and don’t waste our time.