What Cheating Does To You?
When someone cheats on you, love becomes irrelevant.
What Cheating Does To You is a complete changeover of your life and changes you drastically.
The pain of being cheated can never be expressed in words. Trust gets broken, for never to get repaired again.
You face an abnormal state of mind, which the person is causing, you loved most and, in return, who cheated on you and left you with a broken heart and shattered trust.
You can always work out for its effects on you, but things don’t remain the same.
You start doubting your worth and yourself.
When you get cheated, you start wondering where you were wrong? You don’t only wonder if you lacked dedication for him. Still, you also start questioning your beauty, intelligence, talent, being independent and that everything, which is related to you and is within you.
You lose confidence in yourself. You start feeling that there must be something wrong with you or not someone who deserves to be loved.
You can’t trust anyone again.
When someone, you love, cheats on you, you start feeling everyone to be the same. And that leaves you with a firm belief that you can’t trust anyone.
You feel people are not trustworthy. It’s not abnormal. To trust someone after being cheated is practically very tough.
Here, you need to trust yourself more; this is very crucial than trusting anyone else.
You don’t believe in love anymore.
After being cheated, you feel love to be a bubble. Your hopes of being with a loyal person to you love you, cares for you get murdered.
Thanks to the cheater, who did all these to you and your feelings, but this shakes your trust from love. You find it very hard to believe in love anymore.
You become more sceptical.
You start behaving like a vigilant observer for all you come across. It’s good to be vigilant about the person you meet next, but you start scrutinizing everything about them because of your previous experience in love. This is what cheating does to you.
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You feel No one is worthy enough.
It’s next to impossible to think that the person who made you dance on the 9th cloud up in the sky has dragged you all along to the ground of bitter reality.
It hurts badly. And this hurt makes sure that even if you meet a decent person, however great the person is, you don’t see them worth depending on. You don’t see anything good in them.
You fear commitments.
Cheating makes you shaky, and you don’t want to go into any further commitment with anyone. And without commitment, you can’t have love in your life.
So you start missing that essence in your life. You start going away from happiness because of that cheat only.
You feel like changing yourself.
Since cheating shakes your entire confidence, you feel like changing yourself completely. You might think of changing the way you look or behave, or anything you think is not good about you.
But there is no need to change.
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You prefer being alone.
After being cheated, you feel it’s good to be single and alone than being with someone who can play with your feelings again and destroy you completely.
You feel you don’t need anyone anymore in your life and can live up on your own. Yes, you can, sweetheart, but is that the solution to the problem after someone cheats on you?
You don’t mix up with your friends because you want to avoid talking about that nightmare of cheating. So you start avoiding them and live alone.
You find it tough to let go.
While after getting the worse treatment from someone you loved with all your heart, you should try to close even their thoughts to let them disturb you; things don’t happen that way.
The bitter experience you just had in that relationship keeps haunting you day and night. You think more about all that they did to you, and soon, you start moving towards depression.
Letting go is never easy, but you have to if you want a normal life without tears.
You think happiness is not for you.
You become afraid of being happy or even trying to be happy. You fear your heart will be smashed again if you let anyone in.
You fear to take any step to go closer to someone because your prior experience has taught you that you will be left alone to remain with tears and pain.
This is not true, but this is what exactly happens when someone cheats on you.
Cheating does not only destroy a relationship; it also destroys the other person completely, without any of their faults.
Stay Safe And stay Away From Cheats!
4 thoughts on “<span class="dojodigital_toggle_title">What Cheating Does To You</span>”
HIS ACTIONS CAUSED THIS PAIN AND HE, AND ONLY HE IS RESPONSIBLE.
SO I AM HURT. I WILL BE HURT AGAIN AND I HAVE BEEN HURT BEFORE. I WILL GET OVER IT. MUST ADJUST MY THINKING. HE CHOOSE TO BE SELFISH AND SELF INDULGENT, WHICH MEANS HE WILL DO THAT AGAIN. HE IS USED TO LOOKING AFTER HIS URGES AND FORGET THE ONE WHO GAVE HIM HER LIFE, HER HEART AND A COMMITMENT TO LOYALTY. HOWEVER THAT DID NOT MATTER WHEN HE DECIDED TO STRAY. HE HAD TO SPEND TIME WITH THAT WOMAN AND FLATTER HER, LISTEN TO HER, LAUGH WITH HER WHILE IGNORING YOU. IT IS MORE THAN SEX. DID HE THINK OF THE KIDS? DID HE THINK OF BEING DISHONEST? DID HE THINK OF HER FEELINGS?PLEASE GIVE THIS MUCH THOUGHT BEFORE YOU DECIDED WHAT TO DO NEXT. DOUBTFUL HE WILL CHANGE HE OBVIOUSLY THOUGHT THIS BEHAVIOR WAS OKAY SO IT WILL BE OKAY AGAIN.
So Sorry For You Marg. Chin Up and Collect all your courage to stand firm and move on. All my best wishes are with you, dear.
Absolutelly agreed with every single word. Only one thing… I’m not afraid of trying again, I simply don’t want it anymore. I feel that it’s just not worth the effort anymore. All the bad feelings, sorrow, depression, whatever it was is over me, now I feel good as I am, single and independent
Thank you Sonja! And good to know that, you are doing good. Stay blessed!