5 Signs That You Have Finally Gone Away From Your Toxic Ex ~ And You Are Happy
When you break up with a toxic man, the consequences of everything he’s been doing to you for years, sadly stay with you for quite some time.
And you can’t say you’ve finally stayed away from him until you get rid of all the shadows of this guy’s past.
If you’re wondering if you’ve outperformed your toxic ex or if you’re in the process of doing so, I am giving you 5 signs that you’ve officially passed the phase.
1. You don’t feel the need to contact him
When you’ve just broken up with someone you still care about, the first impulse you have is getting to them.
You might want to tell him how much you miss him, and you might want to start a fight or just see what he’s been doing.
You might want to pick up the phone only to hear his voice or show up at his door, hoping he’ll have you back.
But you’re going to refuse to do any of this. You know it’s a bad idea, and his potential rejection would break your heart again. But you still want to do it, even if you’re not.
And you know when you can be sure you’ve really outdone someone? When you don’t have to stop yourself from contacting them. And this is precisely what’s happening to you.
Lately, you don’t feel the need to reach this man. You don’t have to fight the urge to call him or see him every minute of every day. And that’s one of the safest signs you’ve stayed away from him.
2. You don’t want to answer when he contacts you
What’s common for most asshole ex-boyfriends is that they usually realize what they’ve lost, and they regret losing it, the moment they really lose you. And your ex is no exception.
When he saw you were getting over it, he started crawling towards you. Suddenly, he started reaching out, and he started all the contact.
And just like that, you didn’t feel the need to answer him. You’re not happy, though, after all, he came back to you, but you don’t care if he still loves you or misses you.
No, you’re not ignoring him to make me chase you. You don’t do it to teach him a lesson or to cure your broken ego.
You’re not responding to messages or calls like this simply because you don’t want to and don’t have the need to.
You only think of him as a part of the past, and you have no intention of changing that. You’re done, and things will stay that way, no matter what he does.
Signs That You Have Finally Gone Away From Your Toxic Ex
3. You’ve stopped looking for a closure
When you end a relationship, and when your heartbreaks, it’s perfectly natural that you want to close. You want to know why things turned out the way they did, and you want to end to this story.
But one of the signs that you’ve officially gotten over your ex is that you’ve stopped looking for an ending.
You accepted that you’d never understand a few things, and to be honest, and you don’t want to know them either.
You’ve stopped rewinding your relationship in your head, thinking about everything they could both have done differently.
You stopped looking for reasons why things ended the way they did, and you wondered if you could have avoided it.
You’ve stopped trying to figure out why your ex treated you the way he did, and you don’t justify it anymore.
And most importantly, you’ve stopped looking at everything that could have become of you two. You’ve accepted that your relationship came to an end and that you two weren’t meant to be.
4. You’re completely self-centred
When you miss someone, and when you’re hurt, you waste all your energy on that person, even if it’s not physically present in your life.
You put all your efforts into repairing your broken heart, and in that process, you are completely ignored.
And when you start focusing on yourself again, it means you’ve officially overcome this pain that consumed you.
When you start working on getting better and happy, it means you’ve left the past where it belongs.
5. You love and appreciate yourself
When you spend years with someone toxic who takes every opportunity to diminish you and make you feel bad about yourself; eventually, you start to believe him.
Even if you try to fight it, over time, they manage to convince you that you’re useless and that they’re the best thing that’s ever happened to you.
One of the most important signs that you’ve moved on with your life is that you’re growing up to love yourself again.
You got rid of your ex’s voice from the back of your head, telling you that you’re not enough and you never will be.
Fortunately, you got rid of this man and helped you see your courage again. It enabled you to appreciate and love you too, and that’s a clear sign that he didn’t want you.
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